"When things don't go well it's easy to wonder, "Why me?" It's easy to point fingers. It's easy to wallow in frustration or defeat.

But it is also easy to ask, “What is this teaching me?”

You can't remove the frustrations from life, but you can always try to come out a little wiser on the other side.”

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James Clear writes about habits, decision making, and continuous improvement. He is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller, Atomic Habits. The book has sold over 25 million copies worldwide and has been translated into more than 60 languages.

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“When things don’t go well it’s easy to wonder, “Why me?” It’s easy to point fingers. It’s easy to wallow in frustration or defeat.