Get Back on Track: 7 Strategies to Help You Bounce Back After Slipping Up

We’ve all been there…

You follow your diet religiously for a week and then break it with a weekend binge. You commit to working out more, hit the gym for two days, and then struggle to get off the couch after a long day of work. You set a vision for your career and get excited by the possibilities, only to get dragged down in everyday responsibilities and not return to your dream until months later.

I’ve been there too, but as time rolls on I’m beginning to realize something important:

These small hiccups don’t make you a failure, they make you human. The most successful people in the world slip up on their habits too. What separates them isn’t their willpower or motivation, it’s their ability to get back on track quickly.

There will always be instances when following your regular routine is basically impossible. You don’t need superhuman willpower, you just need strategies that can pull you back on track. Habit formation hinges on your ability to bounce back.

With that said, here are seven strategies that you can use to get back on track right now…

1. Schedule your habits into your life.

Give your habits a specific space in your life. There are two main options for making this happen…

Option 1: Put it on your calendar.

Want to get back on track with your writing schedule? 9am on Monday morning. Butt in chair. Hands on keyboard. That’s when this is happening.

Want to exercise? Give yourself a time and place that it needs to happen. 6pm every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. I’ll see you in the gym.

Option 2: Tie it to your current behavior.

Not all of your habits will fit a specific time frame, but they all should have a trigger that acts as a reminder to do them.

Want to floss? Everyday after brushing your teeth. Same order, same way, every time.

Want to be happier? Every time you stop at a red light, tell yourself one thing you’re grateful for. The red light is the reminder. Same trigger, same sequence, every time.

The bottom line is this: it might be nice to tell yourself that you’re going to change, but getting specific makes it real and gives you a reason and a reminder to get back on track whenever you slip up.

Soon is not a time and some is not a number. When and where, exactly, are you going to do this? You might forget once, but what system do you have in place to automatically remind you the next time?

For more on how to develop a sequence for your habits, read this.

2. Stick to your schedule, even in small ways.

It’s not the individual impact of missing your schedule that’s a big deal. It’s the cumulative impact of never getting back on track. If you miss one workout, you don’t suddenly feel more out of shape than you were before.

For that reason, it’s critical to stick to your schedule, even if it’s only in a very small way.

Don’t have enough time to do a full workout? Just squat.

Don’t have enough time to write an article? Write a paragraph.

Don’t have enough time to do yoga? Take ten seconds to breathe.

Don’t have enough time to go on vacation? Give yourself a mini–break and drive to the neighboring town.

Individually, these behaviors seem pretty insignificant. But it’s not the individual impact that makes a difference. It’s the cumulative impact of always sticking to your schedule that will carry you to long–term success.

Find a way to stick to the schedule, no matter how small it is.

3. Have someone who expects something of you.

I’ve been on many teams throughout my athletic career and you know what happens when you have friends, teammates, and coaches expecting you to be at practice? You show up.

The good news is that you don’t have to be on a team to make this work. Talk to strangers and make friends in the gym. Simply knowing that a familiar face expects to see you can be enough to get you to show up.

4. Focus on what you can work with.

We waste so much time focusing on what is withheld from us.

This is especially true after we slip up and get off track from our goals. Anytime we don’t do the things we want to do — start a business, eat healthy, go to the gym — we come up with excuses…

“I don’t have enough money. I don’t have enough time. I don’t have the right contacts. I don’t have enough experience. I need to learn more. I’m not sure what to do. I feel uncomfortable and stupid.”

Here’s what I want you to think instead:

“I can work with this.”

Because you can. The truth is that most of us start in the same place — no money, no resources, no contacts, no experience — but some people (the winners) choose to get started anyway.

It’s not easy, but I promise you that your life will be better if you choose to feel uncomfortable and make progress, rather than complain and make excuses. Shift your focus from what is withheld from you to what is available to you.

It’s rare that your circumstances prevent you from making any progress. You might not like where you have to start. Your progress might be slow and unsexy. But you can work with this.

5. Just because it’s not optimal, doesn’t mean it’s not beneficial.

It’s so easy to get hung up on doing things the optimal way and end up preventing yourself from doing them at all.

Here’s an example…

“I really want to eat Paleo, but I go to Chipotle every Friday with my friends and I like to get sour cream and cheese on my burrito and I know that’s not Paleo. Plus, I have a book club meeting every Tuesday and we always have ice cream and I don’t want to be the only one not joining the group. Maybe I should try something else?”

Seriously? Is eating clean five days per week better than not eating clean at all?

Yes, I believe it is.

In fact, eating healthy one day per week is better than none at all. Make that your goal to start: eat clean every Monday.

Just because you can’t stick to the optimal schedule, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t stick to it at all. Good habits are built gradually. Start slow, live your life, and get better along the way. Progress is a spectrum, not a specific place.

Furthermore, if you haven’t mastered the basics, then why make things harder for yourself by fretting about the details?

The optimal strategies will make the last 10% of difference. Meanwhile, 90% of your results will hinge on you simply sticking to the basics: don’t miss workouts, eat real food, do the most important thing first each day. Master the fundamentals now. You can optimize the details later.

6. Design your environment for success.

If you think that you need more motivation or more willpower to stick to your goals, then I have good news. You don’t.

Motivation is a fickle beast. Some days you feel inspired. Some days you don’t. If you want consistent change the last thing you want to rely on is something inconsistent.

Previously, I’ve written about strategies for overcoming a lack of motivation. For example, focusing on your identity instead of your results or setting a schedule instead of a deadline or developing a pre–game routine.

Another great way to overcome this hurdle and get back on track is to design your environment for success.

Most of us acknowledge that the people who surround us influence our behaviors, but the items that surround us have an impact as well. The signs we see, the things that are on your desk at work, the pictures hanging on your wall at home … these are all pieces of our environment that can trigger us to take different actions.

When I wanted to start flossing consistently, one of the most useful changes I made was taking the floss out of the drawer and keeping it next to my toothbrush on the counter. It sounds like a silly thing to focus on, but the visual cue of seeing the floss every time I brushed my teeth meant that I didn’t have to remember to pull it out of the drawer.

With this simple environment change, I made it easy to do the new habit and I didn’t need more motivation or willpower or a reminder on my phone or a Post-It note on the mirror.

If you want to hear more about my riveting flossing adventures (and how to stick to small healthy habits), read this.

Another example of environment design is the “green plate trick” that I suggest as an easy way to lose weight and eat more green vegetables. You can read about this strategy (and about the research explaining why it works) in this article.

7. Care.

It sounds so simple, but make sure that the habits that you’re trying to stick to are actually important to you.

Sometimes forgetting your habit is a sign that it’s not that important to you. Most of the time this isn’t true, but it happens often enough that I want to mention it.

It’s remarkable how much time people spend chasing things that they don’t really care about. Then, when they don’t achieve them, they beat themselves up and feel like a failure for not achieving something that wasn’t important to them all along.

You only have so much energy to put towards the next 24 hours. Pick a habit that you care about. If it really matters to you, then you’ll find a way to make it work.

Get Back on Track

Change can be hard. In the beginning, your healthy habits might take two steps forward and one step back.

Anticipating those backwards steps can make all the difference in the world. Develop a plan for getting back on track and recommit to your routine as quickly as possible.


  1. Very pertinent topic, thanks James!

    I love ‘the put it on your calendar’ action. Sometimes I even put the ‘slipping up’ on the calendar, allowing myself to completely disengage from whatever habit I am trying to form for one day, hour, whatever. It usually allows me to not hate myself for slipping up and also lets me focus more on the task at hand when I re-engage with it the next day, knowing that in another week or so I can slip up again. However, it doesn’t always work, and that’s where some of these tips are going to be very good for me to practice.

    All the best,

    • Nice — I like the idea of a built-in buffer zone where you plan for failure and mistakes, and don’t beat yourself up about it. In the end, the goal is to live your life better, not to be a robot.

      Keep up the good work, Moose. I’m excited to hear about how you put these ideas into practice.

    • Routine is everything. Very rarely do we have a single event that transforms our life. Most of the time even the big events fade away after a week or a month. It’s the daily habits that make the difference in the long run.

  2. I really like #5. So often we think we need to have everything in perfect order before we start – the perfect work out with the perfect weights and the perfect sports bra. When I wanted to start meditating (again) back in December, I thought I had to wait until I had figured it all out. One night, I thought, What if I just go upstairs, sit cross-legged, and focus on my breath. I didn’t seek any resources until January, and I was already feeling much more present in my daily life.

    All great points and so important, James. Thank you!

    • Tammy, that’s a great example of the power of building the habit first and worrying about “doing it right” later. In my opinion, this is one of the most critical changes that could lead to success for most people. Who cares if you’re not meditating the “best” way in the beginning? Once you make a habit of it and meditate on a consistent basis (as you did), then you can figure out how to do it better.

      And yet, so often, we spend all of our time researching more and doing less.

  3. Another super-fine article, James! My fave is having someone who expects something of you. When we wake in the morn, I know my wife will not be asking if we are going to walk. It is expected. This is very comforting and motivating for us both.

  4. Excellent job bringing it all together here, James. Designing my environment for success is definitely one of the best ways for me to get back on track.

    I’ve started realizing that the key for all of these strategies is to really pay attention to what if going on inside our head, what our barriers are, and what the trigger is for either reaching that state of flow or spending the weekend on the couch. I recognized that what I do when I get home from work sets the tone for the rest of the night or weekend. If I do something active and productive right away like doing dishes then I’m more likely to get my workout in because my mind is in productive mode. If I sit down on the couch or at my computer right away then I’ve entered my relaxation mode and its harder to pull myself out of that. Since realizing this I’ve been using your strategy of connecting a new habit with a current behavior and when I’ve scheduled a workout I walk in my front door, change my clothes, and do the dishes or tidy up. Then since I’m already being productive I start my workout. Sounds a little crazy, but it works for me!

    • Jennie — thanks for sharing. It’s great to hear how these strategies are being used and what is actually working in the real world. Keep up the great work!

      p.s. Your approach makes perfect sense. Once we get started with something (or with nothing, in the case of sitting around), it’s always easier to keep doing that rather than doing something different.

  5. Another excellent article, looks like I am creating a habit of saying thank you to James. :)

    To get back on track, I found that simple start is most powerful. If you miss the gym or fall on diet, or in any way can’t resist temptation, the best you can do is to simply start doing better and not lose time on lamentation.

    • I agree. The simple start is hugely powerful. Just do *something.* For me, in working towards becoming a proficient drummer by establishing a daily habit of practicing morning and evening, when it’s hard to get out of the chair and in front of the kit or the practice pad, I’ll get up to rinse the dishes and then before I can think about it I’ll put a spare practice pad on the counter, grab a pair of drumsticks (my drum kit is in the kitchen, so it’s really convenient ;-) ) and start practicing a rudiment. That often becomes fun and leads into more practice, but even if it doesn’t, at least I know I did *something*.

  6. I have had back pain called sciatica for 16 yrs. Suffered quite a bit when it strikes with bed rest, which means off work for 2 – 4 weeks. 2 years ago a physiotherapist taught me a simple exercise. I just stick to that less than 5 mts exercise and I have been fine. Not that I didn’t develop back pain but the reassurance from the simple exercise helps me to function normally.

    Sticking to a habit however simple and small takes you a long way.

  7. Thank you James. I recently started a ketogenic version of my paleo diet – so much so that the girl I have the hots for came up and leaned into me because I was so grounded and solid! I didn’t need any blogs, scripts, etc. – I was just being me and that was IT and the connection was awesome from that place of being myself with great boundaries and solidity.

    Of course after that I took a few steps back and wasn’t prepared for this assuming I’d just be “the man” consistently without keeping habits and staying onnit and thought I’d be fine going back to coffee and some things I know don’t work so well for me.

    So this is good to hear and also something to take to heart because sometimes I delude myself and forget the fundamentals and can get into beating myself up.

    Thanks again and look forward to the next!

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